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I'm so glad the job is going well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Me too. It is a relief!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Well, ain't karma's a bitch;)

So I guess that's not a banned word? Seeing as you have it in your signature 3 times, I guess not. LOL!


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Yeah I guess not. I can also say piss and I don't think that is banned.

Hmmmm, if I try other words will they ban ME?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Bitch is one that is almost never filtered because it is a proper term for a dog.

Just like pig can be used as an insult and it's never filtered.

Just gotta pick your insults with a mind to whether they are proper English or not. grin


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LMAO!!! Okay well then I won't type f*ck...


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Well he signed the waiver, and filed it!

I think I need to think about this. I thought it would be a relief, but I am actually trying not to cry at my new job.

I never wanted to be divorced. And now, well hell, that's it. In sixty days I can finalize this, and that will be that.

I still don't want to be divorced. Huh...but I also know I cannot continue on like this.

I am conflicted...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Oh honey. I know exactly how you feel.

It's another part of the rollercoaster. It's only a piece of paper. Your H has been acting like a single man for a lot longer.

(((((Lola))))))


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I've never came to that stage but I have come very darn close. So, although I dont know how it feels, I have felt my stomach getting tight and getting sick a couple of times preparing the paperwork.

I, too, think it is another phase. You didnt want to end up divorced but girlfriend, a marriage needs two persons.

Calm down, nothing changed since ...yesterday. It's all a matter of perception when you get to this point, I think.
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I suppose you are both right. Nothing really has changed, it is, after all just a piece of paper. And in talking to a good friend, apparently this feeling of dread is really normal.

I still hate it.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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