Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[Gnosis]

So... I just spent some hours reading your threads in detail and making notes (9 pages of them.) I want to mull over the notes later. In the meantime, here's what I see about your H:

a) Your H seems to suffer from paranoia.
b) His behavior exhibits traits of a Passive-Aggressive person.

I personally have some Passive-Aggressive in me but not to the extent of your H. I deal with it differently. I admit we're not the easiest people in the world to get along. Especially when we feel we've been wronged. Google it for more information, I think it will help you a little.

Questions for you.
1) Attorney: You've been advised to and have suggested seeking legal counsel a few times. Have you done this yet? If not, why not? If you have, what did they say?

2) Have you two ever been apart for an extended period of time during your marriage? i.e. Moving out for longer than a week.

I'll wait for your answer because I need to step away from the PC and take a break. Your thread has exposed some things in me that I've been guilty of in the past within my M that I want to mull over.