Can I save my marriage?

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Um, just a question. My sitch started out really bad, then once I started DB'ing it got better and better, and almost to the point of "R". Then he took some steps back, which was fine I was told to expect that. Then we had a bad night, I felt like he was testing me and I behaved poorly and so did he. For anyone following my thread you know which night that was. And he has now been dealing with the repercussions all week from people at work. Just wondering if anyone has seen something like this before and the marriage has still survived.

I'm just concerned as he told me afterward that we were on the right track and he saw change in me and now he doesn't after that night. Can one night really damage us? I guess it depends on the person, and when it comes to my H, you never know what will happen.