What is your attorney advising? Unfortunately, your moving away might come back and hurt you. The court usually looks at continuing the arrangement that was in place before. They look at who was the primary parent. Hopefully, you have been documenting everything. Not all courts care about who cheated or who left who. They care about what schedule is best for the kids. Rather then say "see you in court". Start playing the role of the rational co-parent. The judge/court doesn't care about who hurt who more they want to resolve the case as easily as possible. If you have issues then you should have your attorney suggest you both go to mediation to work out a schedule. Then have your attorney draw it up into a contract or she may not follow through like mine did.