I am worried he shows no interest in pursuing me sexually. I know the doc said no sex but I would think that when you want your woman, trying to seduce her and show her love, you could bend the rule a bit. It wouldn't kill him to at least try, you know? o, I am not sure why he is numb but I dont like the feeling it gives me.
As far as my feelings: practicing love is the decision I am making to the max. Honestly I think he is the wrong person at the right place... Today he came to the airport, he left, going to Ukraine. He was nervous about the trip and still managed to go pick up the kids before he left and wanted to buy a perfume for him that I like, inroduced me to nearly everybody that was flying with him and kissed me when he got in the gate.
I want this game to pass and then hopefully things will start showing where they are heading... K
Kalni, My H has had ed since July, 08 and has not pursued it with the doctor yet. There are so many ways someone can pursue sexually that do not include intercourse, as the mind is the most important sex organ there is.
Patience, dear Kalni.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
My life has changed so much. And everything is the...same. M
I disagree that it is the same. He is making baby steps. The hurt you have had to go through because of him is driving you to expect him to show more effort. He has to step up, and you have to be patient. Time. Patience.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Lobotomy would be good. Flashers from MIB would be better.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Today he came to the airport, he left, going to Ukraine. He was nervous about the trip and still managed to go pick up the kids before he left and wanted to buy a perfume for him that I like, inroduced me to nearly everybody that was flying with him and kissed me when he got in the gate.
