Don't worry about sending the text. Every sitch is different and sometimes we need to show that we are still around and not necessarily mad anymore so our spouse feels comfortable to have more contact. I am the same way and if H did not text me this morning I would have text him to let him know I am still "in". I just need to worry less about us.
Stay in there and thank you so much for the encouraging words. You really have helped!
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