I can tell she wants to be with me so badly, but is convinced that she shouldn't be.
What do you think is still telling her that?
If you aren't sure, is there a way you can ask her without it turning into an argument or a non-productive R convo?
What can you do to change her perception of those issues?
Go back to the real basics. What were the reasons she left? What is still keeping her away? And tackle them. You have given her time, you have made changes, and while you are seeing baby steps, it never hurts to reevaluate your progress.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2