Thanks for your kind words. I am learning still as well. I don't think the learning ever stops, whether it's about M or life. And, that's what keeps things interesting.
It makes me happy to know something I have posted or learned about might help someone else. There is so much pain on these boards. But, more importantly, so much help.
Just keep posting, keep learning, and work on improving you for no one but YOU. This is such a critical element in all of this. We can repeat the phrases we see here, but the aspect of working on you solely for you makes so much sense as you progress, and you will understand that more when you look back on the progress you WILL make.
And on another note, when I started out, I thought things had to change right then and in all respects. But, the change we all work on here comes in stages - it's incremental. And, it's a lot like a snowball rolling downhill. The more it rolls, the more snow it gathers and the faster it rolls. So, too, will your improvements. Just hang in there. No matter what happens in the end, you and your sitch WILL get better.