Did I say "be friends?" Did I say stuff in your feelings? NOOOOOOO!!! I said, keep your damn distance.
We have more similarities in our cases than you will ever know. As far as me and you are concerned. My advice to you, for the last time so you wont hate me, back off.
She cant help you deal with your anger and disappointment. Dont go asking/expecting (indirectly) her validation. And dont offer yours to her since you -rightfully so IMO-, think she doenst "deserve it". Rule no #1 =detach! It wasnt that easy after all, huh? Be SMARTER. You are ruled by your emotions. K