So, I think we are b/w steps 2 and 3. I don't hate her, I am not angry at her and I have accepted how she feels. I think we are friends again. We work well together with family issues and we are nice to each other. I share my life with her and she does with me.
I just wanted to say that it is nice to see living proof that progress is possible. I am relatively new at this. Going on my 8th week of separation, and my 3rd week of actual DBing. I am trying really hard to detach and have had several backslides. Right now I still have negative feelings towards H. Part of me wants to befriend H again. The other part of me wonders why I would ever want to become friends with someone who basically just threw me away. So I guess at this point I am still stuck on step 1 with a lot of work ahead of me.
Anyway, not trying to hi-jack your thread. Just wanted to let you know that you are an inspiration to me in knowing that progress is possible regardless of the overall outcome.
Thank you for that.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
