Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

I did it! I signed up for the class! Thanks for the encouragement, P17. I had to switch Thursday night with Friday with WH (aka my babysitter) in order to do it so I had the chance to tell him that there was a dance class I wanted to take.

He didn't ask what kind of dance, but the teacher says to come wearing a low cut shirt and dance pants! So he will see me leaving dressed like that most likely!

I also get a kick out of taking away part of his Friday night with OW!

But he brought the damn WORK BAG today. We'll see. I am still going to be relaxed..face the fear...be confident...

And the Getting Through to Your Man book arrived yesterday. I started reading it and am so curious to try some stuff out. Someone gave it a raving review by calling it "her man bible" and she said she carries it around with her but hides it from her man! One thing that Michele mentioned so far is that if you want your man to do something, you PRAISE HIM for it instead of nagging. Ex: I really loved it when you brought me flowers the other month. You are so good at making me feel special! You can bring me flowers any time!
Also, if you change the way you act, they will respond. So instead of turning down sex, complaining, being a grumpy bitch, just start acting playful, nice, initiating sex and then your man will start to act his best, too!

This makes sense. I won't be doing any initiation of sex at this time, though!!!!