I packed up her belongings, even though it seemed like we were finally busting this divorce, and told her to go live with her sister until I feel she has her issues under control. She can have supervised visitation and we will plan outings and dinners as a family. But if she did not leave or was abusive in any way shape or form to my son, daugther or myself, the State of New York will get involved.
I agree with that. You were putting your family first setting your boundaries all good. I think dumping the bottles is more of a trying to control her behavior/drinking and I see that as different. I think it would be good to go to alanon and get their advice, before you become proactive, which I do think you will need to do in the near future.
