I can only comment on how you come across in your posts.
Of course. And I bring my needy, questioning, scared, worried self here - in order to not show that to my WAW.
Something I forgot to mention - this morning I was talking with D18 about her plans for school etc in the next year or so. Since our separation and homes etc will affect that, all that was part of the conversation. She said WAW is going to give her a key to WAW's apartment, so she can be there when she wants. I never thought there was OM involved, but that makes it even less likely. At one point I said, you know I am staying in the house for at least the next year, so you can come and go between the 2 places as you please - she is an adult (almost) after all. Then I said, and after that year, we will see. She responded with "you and mom might be back together by then - mom says it's up to you".
Puppy - I know you call them crumbs, but the more things like this I hear, the more hope it gives me. I will do my best not to live the next year, only in the hope of reconciliation, but it's far better than no hope at all.
