Question from a nervous newbie--if you had no contact for 3 months, what was the "doing all you could do" to save the M? I know, working on yourself, GAL, etc...but what I am struggling with is having no contact with my WABF, and wondering how my miraculous personality changes are going to reverberate through the universe and into his heart/head somehow.
What did you do during the 7 months and the 3 months of silence that made changes in the R?
Thanks-
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
