Thanks for reposting that blurb from Snodderly. It resonated with me as well. Glad to hear you had so much fun this weekend with your D's. It's just a good thing all the way around - you, your girls, everything! =)
haha, regarding your lunch, I don't think it's the best to be dating people when you are still trying to save your marriage, but there is nothing wrong with getting support from people who have been there before (men or women). But if you see if becoming more serious, you'll just really need to re-evaluate your goals.
It's hard to learn that W is looking around, but the good news is that nothing has happened yet. Just continue to be positive around her and to take care of yourself. Just watch out for being cold though - not sure how it's coming off in real life, but like when you said "Back from the Dells. Just dropped girls off at W's. We did not exchange looks." You definitely want to be detached and in control of your emotions, but not coming off as cold.
Well, I know you feel pretty bummed about the direction of your sitch, but it's not over til it's over, right. Keep it up! =)
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