thanks for the responses; just knowing a few of you are out there reading is helping calm me down. Taking some kind of action is good too.
honestly, I worry that i'm overreacting to her drinking out of some kind of LBS desperation, but that's gotta be wrong thinking. Al-anon should give me prespective. Gardner recommended I read "Rational Recovery", which I did yesterday, and it had a section on enablers/suckers which should have erased my doubts!
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