Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

OK- I'd like some advice/opinions.

For last 2 days H has been more distant, sleeping more. Saw some texting between him and his HS FB friend this morning-he hasn't mentionned texting her at all to me since it began. Its sporadic-not excessive and seems to be initiated often by her(she's twice divorced and I don't know her story/history).

My red flags are starting to go off, especially since I know they were emailing a bit on his email and he has changed the password and again not mentionned that to me and I haven't brought it up.

So my instinct is to ask him about the email password change. If I ask about the texts then he'll change that password and I won't have access.

Trust is obviously a big issue and although H took steps to help when moving back(like changing all of his and my passwords to the same one)..we seem to be going backwards there now.

I'm wondering if this is all part of the withdrawal stage and I should leave things be and let him be secretive. I'm wondering if I confront him if that will make him go back in the tunnel so to speak.

I'm not sure what to do, but obviously like everyone here, I don't want to be continually lied to....