The only way I ever got any peace, and surprisingly any answers (possibly?), was to write a carefully crafted e-mail which mostly said I am resigned to the D and give up. It took him more than 3 months to respond to it, but he responded with an equally long e-mail (although parts of it were stupid and still playing the "it's your fault cuz" game lol).
But, you know what works for you.
You know what makes you feel better. And deep down, you know what you need to have peace (most of the time at least, since we all have the days where we dwell on the past a little ).
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
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