How far is she planning on moving? In my state, you have to file papers with the court and get approval for relocating after D. I think they have limits as to how far they can move after D don't they? I think it's also a major problem it doesn't sound like your X has officially told you of the move; you're hearing of it through your S? I don't think she should have primary custody if she isn't going to communicate with you esp. on such a MAJOR issue!!!
