Norm, my wife also gave me her grand plans of being the best of buddies after the Divorce.
Thanks, Burt
This is what I really want to say in response to her letter:
“You have been blessed never to have a spouse walk out on you. When a spouse walks out the one left behind is overwhelmed. The feelings of rejection are devastating. The pain of loss is so deep, so intense and profound that words fail. The pain is unspeakable. It is not unlike losing a parent. There are no worlds to describe it. It is very difficult to think of the person who has inflicted, and continues to inflict, this hideous pain on you as a friend because no real friend would ever hurt you like that. When you say you want us to be friends, you really have no idea what you’re asking.”
The question is, should I?
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
