Okay, so I didn't give the whole story. After the first text I was in the middle of texting back "no problem", but he called me before I had a chance. I was late picking the kids up from the dayhome and the provider called H, so he called me to see where I was. In that conversation he mentioned coming over inbetween shifts to see the boys. Then after his shift went late he text that he was still there. I didn't really feel like there was anything for me to say? Why can't I get this right? Some texts need to be addressed and some don't. I really can't figure out which is which! Did I mess up with the whole texting thing then? One was just an apology, and the other was just letting me know he's late at work. I dunno. I honestly DON"T know Puppy, or I wouldn't be asking for help. Thanks for the feedback though.

Citygirl, I pretty much did that. When he continued to babble, I finally told him it did not have to be discussed already, and ended the conversation. I guess I just have a hard time cutting the conversation off so abrubtly. I feel rude. I'm not a rude person.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14