Fyi, I think it's normal to be bitter towards OP. I know I certainly was. Notwithstanding the fact that they're not really likeable or admirable people generally, when you struggling with resentment and love for your spouse (and really wanting the pre-alien model back), it's easy to want to blame some external agent.
But that's not the point. Yeah, one day at a time, and to borrow someone's phrase, you know you can do it.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
