I want my WAW back!

[TrentC]

My usual response is "She knows," and I'm sure she does.

I'm not sure what you mean my "She knows". You mean, she knows that I still love her? Does the fact that she hasn't filed for D indicate any hope whatsoever? It's been very discouraging with my efforts in saving the M, thus far.

Yes, and yes.

Yes, she knows that you love her. She may not want to hear it right now, but she knows.

And yes, not filing for D should be, at the very least, taken as a sign that things are not done with yet. And that is what DB'ing is about -- it's about trying to stop the seemingly-relentless march towards the divorce decree.

Trying to work on rebuilding your relationship right now would be like trying to repair an axle on a locomotive that's speeding towards the cliff...