My wife and I are attending a 2 hour session of Christian marriage counseling tonight. I setup the daycare and set the appointment which surprised her as normally she would have setup the daycare. I have not called, emailed or chatted unless she initiates. This is the second week of our separation/nesting arrangement. W has initiated and chatted with me everyday through Gmail chat. Chats have been good and she has asked a lot of questions about what I have been doing. Two weeks ago she would not even have considered counseling!
GALing has been the best part of this whole journey. Went out with friends had a great time all weekend that I was without kids and slept at my other place. Still have my bad moments but I just keep reading here and know I am doing the right thing by not pursuing. Sometimes I am afraid I might find someone else if we do not get on the right track soon. I have not been intimate with my W or anyone else in over two months. This is the longest I have gone in 20+ years!
Anyway if anyone has any advice on how to approach the counseling session in store for tonight it would be greatly appreciated.
HeartBroken Dad
Me: 42 Her:41 Son:11 Daughter:9 Married:1993 Bomb 9/09: "I am ready to move on." Filed 10/21/09 Separate: 11-8-09
