I've been separated now for 4 months. I am currently doing the LRT and GALing. At the very least, my W is not as angry as before, but has not given me any signs of reconciliation, although she has not filed for D. One question I have, and I would appreciate any advice, is when do you know when to tell her that you still love her and still fighting for the M. Or, what do you say and do before it seems like it's totally hopeless? What if by detaching, she comes to the conclusion that you stopped loving and have moved on without her? Thank you in advance for any help given.
Sam, that's a good question, and one that most nervous newbies have. My usual response is "She knows," and I'm sure she does.
I've been struggling with same question. Thanks, Puppy
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec