Hey GIMA, I hear you about wanting W to want the M too. I guess you meant eventually ... and that she's gonna be putting in the work in the right direction meantime too. Can't force that, although one can hope MC will help clear her mind towards why that might be a good thing for her.

The push and pull factors, I think we've all been there, pretty normal.

Where I am, MCs are almost always fully booked for weeks (gee, what a surprise) and I think it's great you have options. The first one we went to was actually pretty good in hindsight, but I hated her back then. She was quietly trying to get me to DB and I was outraged she wasn't reeling then WAW back in.

Keeping you in my thoughts.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.