Its almost like he was looking for excuses to call. I dunno. The point is, I don't really know what the DB'ing way to handle this is. I have read DB but not DR yet and I feel like I'm not quite skilled enough to handle this? Help please!
Yes, you DO know. You're just not DOING it.
You should have responded to his first text, as it was about pick-up/drop-off -- about the kids. Those should always be responded to. Had you done that, it's likely that none of the ensuing drama would have ensued.
The second text should have also been replied to, as it was also about logistics. A simple "OK, thanks" would suffice.
C'mon, you're making this way more difficult than it is.
