Can I save my marriage?

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Hey, so ya I am from Canada so its all good. I'll go to the walk in clinic and the worst that will happen is they will refer me to a psych doctor for the proper meds, then I will have to wait to get in with them. But I have a good feeling they can help me.

Puppy, no I had to wait until H had the kids, I can't take them to the walk in clinics here, sometimes you have to wait an hour or two to get in, much too long for two little kids. H takes the kids tomorrow, so I'm going tomorrow afternoon.

As for an update on my sitch, H text me yesterday morning apologizing for getting called into work as he was supposed to have the morning with the kids. I didn't reply. He then text me again while at work saying he wasn't going to be able to swing by (he mentioned that he would before he went to his "real" shift) but he got stuck late at the "fill-in" shift. I didn't reply again. Then at about 8pm last night he calls. When he calls from work it is "private name", I only answered it cause I thought it was a girlfriend who is unlisted so it comes up as the same. But no, it was him. Darn! Anyways, he really didn't have much to say. He discussed his shift that day, I didn't really give him the time of day. Then he went on to talk about S3 at skating yesterday....(like we already discussed that yesterday..seriously?) Then I started to cut him off saying I needed to put S1 to bed and he interrupted and asked what we're doing with the kids for the weekend. Its MONDAY! Do we really need to be discussing that today? I quickly gave him a run through of the pick up and drop off. He then went into next week. Finally, I had enough, and I said " Do we really need to be talking about next week today? It's over a week away!" He agreed and said okay, I'll just talk to you wed. then. And we said our goodbyes.

I don't know. I just can't hang up on him. I accidentally answered not knowing it was him. I tried to cut him off TWICE! He just seems to be calling for no reason at all! Anything that we talked about last night really did not need to be discussed! We have 4 days till the weekend. Its almost like he was looking for excuses to call. I dunno. The point is, I don't really know what the DB'ing way to handle this is. I have read DB but not DR yet and I feel like I'm not quite skilled enough to handle this? Help please!