Changing Man

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Gonna bump this reply to Greek back up. Interested to hear what she has to say about one of my last paragraphs:
And I had to admit to myself the other day - tough to admit - I was weighing the two options wondering which one might lend itself more to an eventual reconciliation: Being gone for good or being around here and bumping into each other occasionally. I was almost embarrassed by the thought of it, but hey, there is a Divorced But Not Done Forum, right? Go figure. So, after STBXW's horrendous "revelation" the other day, am I nuts" Normal? Optimistic? Or kidding myself?

I see "Normal" here, Gardner. You love her. You don't want to divorce her. But, but, but...considering her "horrendous" BS about you sexually abusing her...reconciliation MUST entail her winning you back. You have been dissed bigger than Dallas, my friend, and you are not going to be bellying up the bar for another shot of that. She will have to repair that breach of trust first.

Sorry it took me so long to find this question. I've been sick with a cold and not reading much here. Coach has been keeping me updated

Greek