Found out wife was having an affair with one of her "bosses" at her work. She had initially admitted to it being "an emotional" affair,[/quote]
That's an affair. Your wife spends her energy, time, love and thoughts with another man. Do you need more proof? The bogus txts really?????
[quote]She'll simply deny and get even more secretive,
Why deny and be more secretive if you are above board? It's called transparency.
"Since you have admitted to a an affair then I will require a transparency plan to protect myself and our family. I will have total access to your phone and e-mail."
This OM is a predator, he's dishonoring your wife and family.
Boundaries are all about behavior.
Pursuing and chasing would be you dropping by work, sending flowers, kissing her butt, and bargaining with her.
Your wife actually wants you to fight for her. She wants you to stand up for her. She wants her husband to be strong and confident. She needs you to stand up to her.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
