How can I hold firm boundaries ("if you do this, I'll pack your bags") when I don't even have proof of the affair? She'll simply deny and get even more secretive, I think. So it feels like chasing.
OK, now I'm totally lost and confused.
In your very first post, you said:
Originally Posted By: Norseman05
Found out wife was having an affair with one of her "bosses" at her work. She had initially admitted to it being "an emotional" affair, but one of our neighbors told me the truth. My wife admitted to going to a hotel at noonday in July with this guy.
