WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

I did blow up at her yesterday when she called me about some tactical stuff about the kids. I reminded her that now that I'm back in PA I want to see my kids alot more. She said we can go back to our old arrangement of me having them Thurs, Fri and Sat and we would alternate Weds. I told her those days don't work for me anymore as I want weekends off as well. So I said I will take Sun, Mon, Tues and we will alternate on Sat.

She said she disagreed and said that since we can't agree, we will just have to go back to doing one of the scenarios we had done before. I told her that I don't think so and that we will go to court. I will spend every dime we have fighting for the kids and at the end of the day they will know that and she won't see a single penny of it. She said she didn't want any of it. Then I asked her then why did she file to get it then? She didn't answer.

Then I reminded her of how she felt about her father for cheating on her mother and leaving them. I asked her how do you think our boys will feel about her once they learn the truth. She said she didn't have to listen to this. I said bye and hung up.

Today, I talked with my lawyer to get the child support and alimony petition filed. I still need to figure out what to do about custody.

I want to file for primary, where she sees them every other weekend and dinner twice a week, but I'm worried that once I find a job, I wouldn't be able to do that. Then I'll wind up with the other end, where I see them every other weekend and dinner twice a week.

Any thoughts????