Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
NO TEXTS WHATSOEVER in memory? Or just no SUSPICIOUS ones?

How many texts per month does she normally send/receive?

Puppy


No texts at all. She is Jonny on the spot about erasing everything.

How many I don't know but I know she texts. I was looking at my text history yesterday I still have one's from 3 months ago.

I know I know red flag but what to do.

Last night was interesting at home.

I started my 180's the coach gave me a they worked perfectly.

Wife says okay thanks for waiting until we move to give an answer about her "offer".

She kept trying to drag me into what I thought about the "offer" but I would not take the bait. I said "I am not talking about this right now, after we move".

She was clearly in a low mood. Was saying stuff like "I just hope my kids still love me after this" and "I hope we are still friends after this".

To both I said "I have no idea". I am not sitting there making her feel better about her choices.

She sent a email last night that I got today.

Okay good idea to wait (about "Offer")

"I think we need to look at sleeping arragements after we move". (I already told her I was staying in the bed she could move).

Also she informed me she is taking the "Parenting After Separtion" class on Thursday.

I have made no response yet.