he asked me to be available for an hour to "talk". He said "just about normal things".
What are "normal things?" I assume separation, divorce, custody, and division of assets and debt are not normal conversations in your household. If the conversation deviates from the "normal," I would just say "I really don't want to have this conversation now" and if it becomes to much for you you are free to say "Conversation Over" and walk away.
