Yeah, I definitely need to quit checking call records as often. I guess I was just wanting to see if there was any change in her contact with him after my message to her this past weekend. Also, even though she doesn't realize that I have access to this phone log, I fear that she could change the PIN or number at any time, and I wouldn't be able to capture the logs. I know that I just need to let that go. Will try to set up a schedule for when I view/log these records, probably each weekend.
CC, I TOTALLY understand. I've been you. The problems, as I see it, with checking them daily are:
1) Daily damage to your strength and self-esteem, and it will make you WIFE-focused, instead of CROWS-focused, which is what you need to be right now;
2) Like stepping on a scale DAILY, it can lead you to make poor tactical decisions. You will misread cause-and-effect.
