I really hate to tell you this but most WAS that move out will tell you its the only way to save the marriage. If they stay it will be over but if they move out there is still a chance. Its their way of leaving as the "good person". Hey, look at me, I want this to work out so *I* will leave, aren't I a hero?
Its their easy escape. The tell the LBS what they want to hear to get out. My H told me he knew he owed it to himself and to our marriage to move out so we could date and get some space. Yes, he wanted space - to screw his OW.
Almost a year later my H admitted to me he moved out under totally false pretenses. He said he felt that was the easiest way as he knew moving out would hurt me so he just said he wanted us to date and all that. LOL!
The WAS will say just about anything you want to hear when they move out so they look like the "good guy" that is trying *everything* to work on the marriage. Funny thing is, the things they *should* be trying (counseling, improving communication, setting healthy boundaries) aren't options. Nope, moving out is the *only* way to go.
