We talked about it before he came home. He knew he would have to earn my trust again and it wasn't going to be easy. He had to make me feel safe again.
We did talk alot about everything in the first few months of him coming home. He was very open about everything. He understood that I needed to put it behind me and I had to know what happened with him and our life.
If he went anywhere by himself and he was going to be longer than expected he would call. If the OW called and left him a VM he would tell me and let me listen to it.
Believe me it didn't happen over night. It was hard because of all that he promised before. He knew that I wouldn't go through this again.
It will happen with time and alot of work on your H. This is something he has to prove to you.
