Oh, and to explain some of my highs and lows you all are witnessing, you should know my schedule.

I work three nights a week from 7p-7a. The days after I work I come home to my two munchkins wide awake and ready for the day while I am dog tired and want to sleep. The nights I work I nap with the kids for 2 hours. I wake up at 3:30pm to shower and go to work. I get home the next morning at 7:30am. I do not go to sleep until 1pm when the kids nap again. So, I go around 22 or so hours with 2 hours of sleep. My lows generally coincide with the sleep deprivation days.

Another piece of our relationship breakdown, he works day shift 6 days a week from 8am-6pm.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month