Once again, you seem to be carefully building and phrasing your entire post to elicit the type of answer you already want to get.
Have you even READ DivorceBusting or Divorce Remedy yet? If you had, you would know that this is INCREDIBLY "pursuing" (or what I would call "needy/grabby"), which only makes a WAS feel pressured and run away even faster.
And yes, you're letting her cake-eat, but then again you already knew that.
