(((Al))) thank you for your really thoughtful post and for pointing out things that I had overlooked in my rage. I have calmed down about it a lot after getting over the initial shock of receiving the email and can see some good points, even if to me the way he expresses himself sometimes often seems insensitive. The bit you pointed out to me about him missing me though, thank you. That has given me some comfort. I always appreciate your point of view and your posts to me.
(((Michelle)))
(((Cas, Bonny))) I have tried that, demanding to know what was going on etc and ranting etc, and it doesn't work and it doesn't make me feel better as it was possibly the most unsatisfactory conversation I have ever had! I did it over and over in the beginning and he just clams up and says nothing but 'I don't know'. In truth, I do believe that he honestly doesn't know, or can't express to me what went on in his head. I think he is ashamed and shocked by his behaviour. I don't feel I need an explanation from him really, I know what happened. I am ok about it now really. I don't like that it has happened, but I accept it has.
