Is this the end of my marriage?

[Hope4us]

I agree Puppy. Exposure isn't done to tell the whole world what's going on. It should be done only to people who can have an influence on your W.

In my sitch, a lot of people figured it out even though I didn't come out and tell them. And it was an ISSUE when W and I reconciled. I don't think she believed me when I told her I only told 5 people (my brother, her close friend, our two adult children and a close friend of mine). Everyone else figured it out on their own, but I wouldn't lie to them when they asked.

But it definitely caused problems in our recovery.

You have to really think about why you want to tell the whole world....