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Nope, good idea though!


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Wow! shocked

Somebody is sure spinning, and it isn't me!

"You are Bobbi Jo again."

"I have noticed, you have changed."

"You are the person you used to be, happy, fun, etc."

"6 months ago it was annoying to be around you."

"If it could be like it was this weekend all the time, that would be great."

"I don't know what it means, but I know I am really happy that you are happy..."


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Interesting!

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Yeah I told him he could get in line to date me like the other guys... whistle cool


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You didn't!

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Well, I told him that I had been on one date so far but had two other guys ask me out this week.

And he said at one point his best case scenario was "I move back in, we get along like crazy and everything is good"--

except he still isn't sexually attracted to me like he used to be!! But he is more attracted than he was six months ago... crazy

So anyway I said that his best case scenario wasn't happening. I said moving in first is a huge mistake I would never repeat again. I said if he wanted to date and see what happened from there he could but I was going to keep seeing other people...

He said his worst case scenario was we got back together and found ourselves at square one a year from now...

I said don't worry, that won't happen either. I wouldn't put up with that crap for a year! grin I said a year from now I will either be happy with you again or happy with the next great guy I meet. I am not worried b/c I will be happy regardless...


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(((((BobbiJo)))))

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except he still isn't sexually attracted to me like he used to be!!

OK, so we have established that he is an idiot!

Good responses BobbiJo! I think you may have gotten his attention!

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Good one Jeff!

Bobbi Jo - good job standing your ground and not giving in to his spin. It sure seems like the shoe is now on the other foot.

I sure hope Dan does not start texting you in the morning like MG#2 did.

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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Wow! shocked

Somebody is sure spinning, and it isn't me!

"You are Bobbi Jo again."

"I have noticed, you have changed."

"You are the person you used to be, happy, fun, etc."

"6 months ago it was annoying to be around you."

"If it could be like it was this weekend all the time, that would be great."

"I don't know what it means, but I know I am really happy that you are happy..."



sorry..I don't buy it..I don't buy it for a second...

I think Dan knows what to say to get to you...

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I agree with Mike Bbj. He isnt spinning IMO. He just hates it that you are no longer crawling...
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