I think that maybe you need to prepare yourself that this may not happen until they DO actually live together. At the moment they just get to see the 'best' bits of one another. Being together all the time, at work and at home, may well show some big cracks.
That's something I try to remember. A real loving marriage is boring a lot of the time. Paying bills, getting the kids up, cleaning up sick, wee, changing nappies / diapers, picking kids up from football, watching TV, making dinner, taking the dog to the vets ... etc. That's all boring! When they start to live together that is when the annoying little habits will come out too. It's also when life will become boring and the excitement should wear off. That does take time though as when the first live together it will be possibly even MORE exciting!
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Everyone has days when it all seem so much worse. Just look after yourself and don't doubt your self worth.
Try and put off any decisions when you feel emotional. It's not always possible (I fail frequently myself) but try.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
