Projecting is dead on. When I told her I wanted to sell the house The color left her face. This was my answer to you can move out and I will stay here with the kids. I think that is what turned the conversation and the day south. She didn't like her plans all screwed up. I realize now that she pushed forward with the let's seperate stuff when she started feeling like she had the upper hand in the conversation.
The relationship talks always come from her when stress sets in and I am feeling good eg not paying any mind to her, her actions don't bother me, or I called her on something I didn't like.
