#66 Looking for Susnhine...

[AliSuddenly]

I think you should talk to him about this, not about her or the past, like you say you dont want to be seen to be 'nagging' too much about all of that right now. Ask him if he feels stressed by it?

Do you think HE is worried? You said you are worried it wont be that great, do yuo think he is? Not because of her, because of what you two are like. Or, fear of comparison? Afterall, he hacked your email too right.

I agree with Mish and like I said, can you surprise him, mix him up a little from his comfort zone? - arrange a sitter and go be at his apartment (his Dad can give you a key?).. be asleep in his bed in something fancy, but with no expectations...

I think that they cope better when there is NO pressure, like in the dead of night, as I discovered