I was thinking earlier today that I probably came off like a whimpering pup on this. A lot has changed and I need to roll with it. I'll consider the importance of trip and I'll work at it.
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The she is not planning on spending holidays with her new person so once again the tgiving thing has come up. The kids want us to do something together. She said either way is fine with her (but she did bring it up). We can do something, or I can do something alone with them and she'll spend the day skiing alone. I'll make a decision tomorrow on this.
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And an impulse a looong time in the making...top middle of my back. Dharma wheel about 3 1/2" across with flowing accents on either side. Gold with orange and brown shading. (i'm still in disbelief...but happy.)
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh