If the opposite of love is indifference, I dont see any of that (indifference) here. What's the point of "showing each other" and acting like kids? I dont get it. There ARE kids in this story and it's not you and/or her.
Come on SP, deal with you anger and get wise. See a C, go play box, meditate etc etc. Even when you do have kids, there is a way to minimize contact. You need that. Stop the disrespectful discussions, dont "show her" anything. Even if she is the one initiating BS, it takes 2 to have a "fight". What's your goal right now? Look into your future, what's your goal? I assume it is to have smooth co-parenting. Work with that on your mind.
You are caught in "a fight" about who is wrong, right, past, present, everything mixed "in one". Stop this now.If she cant, you can. STOP and breathe. It seems you guys are now going thru the anger phase. Next one, as you probably know, is becoming "friends" and then after that, who knows... Maybe nothing, maybe anything... K
