I am also struggling with the ring decision. He tooks his off 1.5 weeks after he moved out. I still wore mine up until 3 days ago. It hurt to take it off and it hurts to see my bare hand. I am trying the LRT so it feels like wearing it is a direct contradiction to the technique. At this very moment, I want it back on...but I am so confused over what message it sends.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month