Inaspin - you sound a lot like I did my first few days here...confused. Try to take some time and figure out where you are and where you want to be. You need to decide how hard you want to work for this.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month