(And let's not forget the famous line from our last set of troubles- "I paid for everything- leave and don't take anything!!" I haven't forgotten the he!! he put me through that time, and I wouldn't put it past him to try it again when he gets angry about the current situation.)
Your lawyer will laugh him right out of this delusion
I haven't told my family my plans yet.Good I think I just want to handle this by myself. The only thing I'm going to need help with is moving the damn couch and pool table, and I'm sure I can figure something out. Get them later, down the road they are not getting-yourself-safely-settled-concerns.Wifey was right a few posts back: Move when he is not home. Sign the lease, pay the rent but don't move in intil you are presented with a solid half-day or day of him being GONE, out of town or something.Talk to Lawyer about move day and see what he thinks of my prior suggestion: notifying police in advance of possible Domestic Crisis during pre-determined move time; Maybe they can have someone posted at house,
Have a good week, everyone. And thank you again! [/quote]
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
